Table Cameras
Q: A few of my friends have suggested that I set disposable cameras out on guest tables during my wedding reception. I have mixed feelings about this; what would MJSE do?
A: Drop the cameras and step back slowly. There are numerous reasons why this is a no-no, so we will gladly walk you through them:
- You hired a photographer, silly! It really is an insult to your professional photographer to have “backup” photographers (meaning your guests) and assume that they would capture any decent photos whatsoever. Let your guests enjoy the toasts, the music, the magic. If they were really excited to photograph the event, they probably would have brought their own Canon.
- Confusion abounds. You might be surprised at how confusing the simple placement of cameras on a table can be to guests, but trust us, it is perplexing. Guests often wonder if the cameras are for them to take photos with and then take or if they are expected to leave the cameras on the table where they found them. Even a note perched next to each camera with clear instructions will be brushed aside in the dim mood lighting and chatter over the toys will ensue while poor Grandpa Joe is trying to give a toast.
- Your moolah is better spent elsewhere. Seriously? You do not have any extras on your wishlist that you would like to buy? Of course you do! We urge you to put your “camera” funds into perky napkin treatments, monogrammed coasters for the bar, or a signature drink.
The bottom line is that giving guests tasks, however small they may be, is never really well received, nor should it be. Guests are present to participate, yes, but a gracious hostess never makes her guests feel obligated.
Questions about your event? Email info@mjse.com. Photo by Michael + Anna Costa.
